The redeemer owns your insoluble problems and works on them until they are made right.
You are separated from the Lord. You are dying. And you cannot fix this. Jesus is The Redeemer. Call out to Him with humble, penitent, trust, and He will be your Redeemer.
The Gospel will shape you to live under the Lord’s providence without passivity or presumption.
The Lord made you to have ordinary desires, and when He saves you, He does not kill your desires, He reorders and purifies them.